If you feel your bedroom action could do with a little fun and playfulness, you’re not alone. Over 60% of men and women in a recent survey said that they wanted to make sex more fun and playful, and that they were tired of ordinary, boring sex that followed the same tired script again and again.
So, how to spice up your sex life? Relationship expert Wendy Walsh, Ph.D., author of The 30-Day Love Detox says, “People learn to play each other’s instruments, and then they go to the same two spots. But you become accustomed to that and you can become numb emotionally and physically. Then things just don’t work as well as they did before.”
Based on the advice from some of the best known relationship experts in the world, here are some great tips to make your sex life playful and fun, once again.
Don’t Fake It
Never fake an orgasm, because when you do, your partner will never know when he’s doing something wrong. Make him work hard to please you, otherwise he will just take it too easy. Let him know when it feels good and when he needs to do better through your body language.
Do Something Unusual
Do something different and unusual. The fact is, all women want novelty in the bedroom, just the same as men do. Do something that’s different from the usual sexual script; maybe have sex in the terrace, or in the car, anywhere except in the bedroom. Change your routine - have sex in the morning, or take a day off work to do nothing but have sex with your partner! There are so many things you can do to make your sex life playful and fun again.
Play Out Your Sexual Fantasy
What’s your favorite sexual fantasy? Maybe you want to try out what you say in the move Fifty Shades of Grey. As sex therapist Ian Kerner says, “Put the thing you’d like to do in the context of a sexy fantasy or dream that involves your partner.” Try out some amazing shower sex, for example. Maybe you would like to use some of the erotic toys available at Onlineintimates.com such as the BDSM Be My Slave, Nipple Clipper or XOXO Clapper.
Try Out New Positions
Get creative with your sex positions. Do you crave nothing more than emotional intimacy and eye contact - then stick to Missionary. How about ripping your partner’s clothes off? Try Upstanding Citizen, or maybe Try Reverse Cowgirl. Just go crazy!
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Every man wants the answer to this question – how to give her the greatest orgasm so that she wants more and more. A man who has learned the art of pleasing women in bed will have no trouble getting any woman he wants and to hold on to the one he desires. Orgasm is an obsession with both men and women, but the fact is not all women have experienced it.
Lovemaking is fine even without orgasm, but with orgasm, sex can be the most beautiful experience imaginable. If you’re looking for a way to drive your woman to the throes of wild ecstasy, you will find the tips given here very useful.
Foreplay is the most important part of giving a woman an orgasm. Unlike men, women take time to climax, so you need to take as much time as possible with the foreplay and get her in a mood for sex, stimulate her in every way possible to help her get an orgasm.
A good foreplay requires a romantic ambience to be created. You need to compliment your woman, appreciate her and make her feel loved. Kiss her on the lips, caress her face, hair and whisper sweet little nothings to her. It may sound something very simple, but it really works. There are no great secrets to driving your woman to an orgasm – you just have to make her feel very special.
Women reach an orgasm through the stimulation of the clitoris, and not as commonly believed, through intercourse. The clitoris is extremely sensitive and you must learn how to handle it as gently as possible. Try deep oral stimulation techniques to take your woman to the heights of sexual pleasure. Oral stimulation is a great way to give her maximum pleasure because it puts just enough pressure on a woman’s most sensitive body part – her clitoris.
It is also important to ensure that your lovemaking sessions are properly lubricated. Use lubricants and oils to being her to a ready stage. Prolong the foreplay to make her wet.
Also, ask her what she really wants. Women don’t talk much about where they want you to touch them, but if you take them into confidence and ask them what would give them the greatest pleasure, they will be happy enough to lead you on your way.
The reason orgasms are so hard to get for some women is that many women feel guilty of getting too much pleasure from sex. They don’t tell their partners what they truly want out of it. They are reserved and shy. It should be your objective to change your woman’s approach to sex, and make her want it as much as you do. Reassure her and encourage her to open up.
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If you’re looking for ways to please your woman, you will find the advice here on OnlineIntimates.com very useful. We have got some of the best erotic toys money can buy for her, for you and for the two of you as a couple. We also have the most amazing B.D.S.M. kits to help you satisfy her 50 Shades of Grey Fantasies. So let’s get started with the sex tips!
Tip #1: Do a precoital massage. This is a wonderful warmup to the main thing. Start by massaging her legs, from her upper thighs to her ankles. Knead her heels, work on her trigger points and focus on her feet. Stretch and pull each toe, and suck on them. The idea is to loosen her up for the main event.
Tip #2: Talk to her, ask her what she likes best and what turns her on. Barbara Bartlik, M.D., who is a renowned sexual health expert and a professor of psychiatry at Cornell University says, "Most women appreciate men who want to make sure they're satisfied. If she notices you're working hard to please her, she'll be more likely to return the favor."
Tip #3: Really, really work hard on your foreplay techniques. There’s nothing more important than foreplay – the foreplay decides if a woman is going to enjoy the sexual intercourse or not. As famous sex therapist Michael Perry, Ph.D., says, "If you act as if you're just going through the motions to get to the sex, she's going to notice, and it will take longer for her to get excited. When a man is loving what he's doing, it's going to show through and turn her on, too." So put some passion and energy into the foreplay, make it fun for her.
Tip #4: Focus on the clitoris. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman’s body. It has to be handled with care. Direct stimulation of the clitoris can lead to a lot of pain, explains Cathy Winks, author of The Good Vibrations Guide to the G-spot. As Cathy explains, "It's much better to rub the clitoral hood [where the tops of the labia meet] or to rub along the side of the clitoris than it is to go straight for the head of it." The idea is to tease the clitoris, have fun with it, lick on it a little, or suck it, build just enough tension for your partner, to keep her guessing about what you’re going to do next. Go at it, back off, and once again go at it. Repeat, as many times as necessary to get her really in the mood.
Tip #5: Work on your oral sex techniques. Maybe you can try this method – lie perpendicular to her body so that you can stroke her clitoris with your tongue, not up and down as you usually do, but in a crosswise motion. She will love the change in your approach to oral sex immensely and maybe she will give you just the reward that you seek
Tip #6: The best way to hit her G-spot is to do it by hand. But to do it through sexual intercourse, use the doggy position, take her from the rear. That’s the best angle for hitting the G-spot according to author Cathy Winks who has written about the various techniques to hit the G-spot time and time again. Keep your hands on her hips, and as you thrust, pull her towards you.
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