How to Squirt During Sex - Squirting and Female Ejaculation
Published on February 25, 2021
The International Society for Sexual medicine asserts that ejaculation or squirting is done by almost every woman. The thing is that the range varies widely. Ranging from small, barely noticeable amounts to gushing streams; so there is a huge debate over the definition and experience. Experts say that every woman squirt but most of them don’t know it as the fluid sometimes flows back into the bladder. So you might have squirted during sex and you are just not aware of your tit.
Studies also show that some women are gifted ejaculators that are natural while some are just unfamiliar with the process. But all women are capable of it. In other words, it can be said that it’s a skill that can be learned and honed, and guess what it feels good. The experience of squirting has been cited as one of the most pleasurable and deliciously enticing experience happened during sex.
So, here we are with a comprehensive guide on suggesting to you about the process or steps that you can use to squirt alone or during sex because it’s a pleasurable sensation and every woman must experience it.
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Go, Solo The very first step is to know about your body. What excites you? What kind of touch or body parts you like the most while you are touching yourself. For this activity, you have to go solo i.e. be alone and explore your body. Let your fingers and hands roam over your body parts and notice how your body reacts to that. Notice the parts that excite you the most because it’s about pleasure and you should be aware of your pleasure points which could push you to the edge. Masturbate solo and notice what happens when you bring in the variations. This strengthens your pleasure pathways and your body became aware of the points through which you can release yourself. |
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G-Spot Always Now that you have become familiar with regular orgasms, it’s time to elevate the level. You might have heard about G-spot. It got its hype due to the pleasure it provides when it is stimulated. Repetitive stimulation of the G-spot gives particular sensations in the body that are highly pleasurable in comparison to regular orgasms. You can find your G-spot by reaching into the vagina while angling up the direction of your belly. Now you can explore this spot either through your finger or through a toy. Both are good and both should be experienced. There comes particular sex toys that are made to stimulate the G-spot and these can be used to find the G-spot and understands how pleasurable it is. |
Squirting is the ultimate level of pleasure and if you want to squirt during the partnered sex then connections are the most important thing. It’s the connection and transfer of energy and emotions during the act that builds up the strength of the sensations and that leads to maximum pleasure and the bursting up of senses to squirt. Breathing in unison, touching each other, enjoying what is going between the two, and the overall feel of pleasure adds up to the point that vagina squirts during orgasm because the whole body is responding to every single sensation and feeling. It’s the complete involvement of sense that brings pleasure.
Setting Up the Scene
Sex is not about the act. It’s about the buildup and the things related to the overall feel. Setting the scene is about creating the atmosphere and anticipation. Sex becomes too much fun when anticipation is involved. You can light a few candles, arrange some pretty flowers in the vase, enhance the fragrance in the air through essential oils and create an alluring atmosphere. Creating the atmosphere is good for both solo and couples because it affects the senses and leads to anticipation. Sex is about pleasure and pleasure should be experienced in the proper setting. Squirt happens when you are completely involved in the process and for that, every worry or stress needs to be away from you. For that, you have to become comfortable and easy. Setting up the scene does that beautifully. Also, you should use a splash pad i.e. a waterproof pad covered with soft towels. A soft cushiony base allows you to be free from the worry of wetting the surrounding.
Use Foreplay as Initiator
Bring lots of foreplay at the table if you are trying to squirt with your partner. Foreplay opens up the senses and leads to anticipation. The body starts reacting to small details and here you can focus especially on the clitoris to start building up the anticipation of orgasm for the body. By building arousal, you will increase the fluids in the urethral response which is squirted during ejaculation. Patience is the key. Use fingers, hands, mouth, tongue, sex toys, touch, talking, and much more to build the necessary anticipation. Don’t get too early into the act of penetrative sex because that will not bring the body on the verge of squirting.
Positioning is important
Get cozy and let your body relax and find a position that is comfortable for you. If you are going solo then you can access multiple positions and try the one where you are comfortable the most. If you are doing this with a partner, have him or her sit by your side facing you. Before going inside the vagina lubricate the finger or toy with a good lubricant and then slowly start penetrating. You should start building a rhythmic pattern while stroking the insides and G-spot. At the same time, if possible stimulate the clitoris with a hand or toy or ask your partner to do so because this will build up the overall stimulations. Apply pressure on clit and G-spot to send those pleasure waves through the body. If you are solo, then you can also start watching something that arouses you, or in the case of partnered sex, start talking the way which arouses you. Receive the feedback and tell your partner how he/she is doing. Let her/his fingers explore the insides. Certain spots bring maximum pleasure. Also, you can add other parts in the mix for getting more arousal and let your body respond to that. It will all add up to the climax and you will have an orgasm with squirt.
Let Go
Once you have tasted the pleasure of squirting even if, on a small level, you’ll notice that it’s quite easy. It’s about letting go of the body to the process and enjoying every single thing. Experiencing the full pleasure of squirting needs you to let go of every worry and just start enjoying what you are feeling through your body. Be patient and enjoy all the aspects. Don’t chase it too much otherwise you will keep thinking about the end that can’t be achieved without the journey and the whole pleasure lies in reaching climax through a pleasurable journey.
Don’t Stress About Peeing
Some women worry that they will pee during squirt and it is quite common when you reach near an orgasm because the pressure is so high and it feels like losing every footing. Experts say that you shouldn't worry about peeing. Sex is messy and there are lots of fluid involved and even if you pee during squirt, it’s not wrong. If it makes you feel good about the process, it's good. You can always wash after the process but don’t keep yourself from enjoying the moment. It’s the pressure on the urethra that is telling you that you are going to pee if you don't control it. It’s no the actual pee. Relax, enjoy and squirt all the way and live your life.
Some sex positions are so great that you can easily squirt while doing that. We are going to know about them.
Doggy style
This is an ideal position for getting a squirting orgasm. The shallower strokes can target G-spot and if you are going solo then using the dildo to stimulate both the clit and inside is a good option. While doing it with your partner, you can use a sex toy or your hands to stimulate clit and ask him/her to go deeper into the vagina or variate between shallower and deeper so that you can get both the G-spot stimulation and pleasure from inside. This will allow the arousal buildup and getting the much-needed squirt.
Spooning
Spooning allows positioning the penis directly towards G-spot while your hands are open for exploring the body of your partner. Ask your partner to access the pleasure points while stimulating G-spot with his penis. You can ask him to tweak your nipples or bite or explore your body's sensation points so that your body starts responding to that. You can also stimulate your clit with your own hands with the help of your partner's hands while your hands are exploring something else. Spooning also allow s the body to experience other body and this builds up the overall connection between the bodies and leads to a powerful orgasm with squirting.
Reverse Cowgirl
This position is ultimate for dual G-spot and clit stimulation and because here the woman is in control of everything, it becomes quite easy for her to get herself fired up in the way she wants. She can control the rhythm and position while enjoying every single thing in the process. Reverse cowgirl allows her to stimulate her pleasure points and clitoris through her hands or toys in a sitting position. Experts say that it is one of the most pleasurable position.
Having an orgasm in the bed is the most basic process and it might become monotonous. But if you add variety to the mix then you can get somethings really pleasurable from the process. Like if you can get into a bathtub and then enjoy the process it would feel enticing and adventurous. Because first of all there is no worry about wetting the bed and secondly in the water your senses work in incremented manner. Having sex in water is really pleasurable and if you add squirting orgasm to the mix you can get the ultimate pleasure. Water also allows you to experience the body reactions in a different kind of way. You can use waterproof toys to increase the pleasure and get the squirting orgasm easily.
- Add Other Things in The Mix
Using sex toys adds up the anticipation and increase pleasure. Some sex toys are made particularly for stimulating the G-spot which is the major reason for accessing powerful orgasms. It’s about the strength and intensity of the orgasm you are going to feel. Use lots of toys if you are into that. Clit massager, g-spot massager, dildos, anal beads, clit sucker, and lots of toys offer you the control that can allow you to access the deep pleasure points inside the body and then react according to that.
Squirting orgasm is about enjoying the sensations and enjoying the body that you have got. Don’t take stress about it. It’s natural and it’s fun and you can get it. You just need practice. Eventually, it all filters down to the fact that orgasm is pleasurable, and enjoying every aspect of it is the key. Enjoy the foreplay, the buildup, and then the eventual squirt and enjoy the life.
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