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Tip #1: Do a precoital massage. This is a wonderful warmup to the main thing. Start by massaging her legs, from her upper thighs to her ankles. Knead her heels, work on her trigger points and focus on her feet. Stretch and pull each toe, and suck on them. The idea is to loosen her up for the main event.
Tip #2: Talk to her, ask her what she likes best and what turns her on. Barbara Bartlik, M.D., who is a renowned sexual health expert and a professor of psychiatry at Cornell University says, "Most women appreciate men who want to make sure they're satisfied. If she notices you're working hard to please her, she'll be more likely to return the favor."
Tip #3: Really, really work hard on your foreplay techniques. There’s nothing more important than foreplay – the foreplay decides if a woman is going to enjoy the sexual intercourse or not. As famous sex therapist Michael Perry, Ph.D., says, "If you act as if you're just going through the motions to get to the sex, she's going to notice, and it will take longer for her to get excited. When a man is loving what he's doing, it's going to show through and turn her on, too." So put some passion and energy into the foreplay, make it fun for her.
Tip #4: Focus on the clitoris. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman’s body. It has to be handled with care. Direct stimulation of the clitoris can lead to a lot of pain, explains Cathy Winks, author of The Good Vibrations Guide to the G-spot. As Cathy explains, "It's much better to rub the clitoral hood [where the tops of the labia meet] or to rub along the side of the clitoris than it is to go straight for the head of it." The idea is to tease the clitoris, have fun with it, lick on it a little, or suck it, build just enough tension for your partner, to keep her guessing about what you’re going to do next. Go at it, back off, and once again go at it. Repeat, as many times as necessary to get her really in the mood.
Tip #5: Work on your oral sex techniques. Maybe you can try this method – lie perpendicular to her body so that you can stroke her clitoris with your tongue, not up and down as you usually do, but in a crosswise motion. She will love the change in your approach to oral sex immensely and maybe she will give you just the reward that you seek
Tip #6: The best way to hit her G-spot is to do it by hand. But to do it through sexual intercourse, use the doggy position, take her from the rear. That’s the best angle for hitting the G-spot according to author Cathy Winks who has written about the various techniques to hit the G-spot time and time again. Keep your hands on her hips, and as you thrust, pull her towards you.
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